Attended one of my classmate wife's wake last night. Poor fellow was so lost as he had depended on his wife to do almost everything for him. Now she is gone, he didn't even know how much money they had in their bank account. He told me she would take all his salaries and give him an allowance to spend everyday.
Another friend was shocked to find out after his wife's demise that she had owed her creditors a few hundred grands.
To be too dependant on someone, be it your spouse,parents,siblings etc is not a good thing. My uncle in Sydney was so dependant on his wife that when she passed away, he didn't even know how to go on living. He became so desperate and grieved that he too died not long after his wife's departure.
I don't think I would ever be like those into the above situations. I think I am an independent guy and not afraid to go on living alone.
Another friend was shocked to find out after his wife's demise that she had owed her creditors a few hundred grands.
To be too dependant on someone, be it your spouse,parents,siblings etc is not a good thing. My uncle in Sydney was so dependant on his wife that when she passed away, he didn't even know how to go on living. He became so desperate and grieved that he too died not long after his wife's departure.
I don't think I would ever be like those into the above situations. I think I am an independent guy and not afraid to go on living alone.
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